Many people are quick and swift at pointing fingers at their Spouse as though they are perfect creatures married to an imperfect being. Well, the truth is that your Partner may not really be the problem; Every so often our Partners are a product of how we are.Below I look at simple points to help you know if you are the aggressor in your relationship:
1. You Are Quick To Cut off Your Partner When They Speak: At times, even hurrying them up to get to the point without considering that they want to be listened to.
2. You Speak Few Words When You Are Satisfied, But When You Are Upset You Go Off Like a Nuclear Bomb: You don’t desire deep conversations when you are satisfied, but when angry, you can’t keep quiet.
3. Your Partner Talks Freely with Everyone Else: But when it comes to you, they prefer silence.
4. You Have Called Your Partner All Sorts of Names: Based on what they have done wrong and how they supposedly make you feel, and hardly do you ever call them by their real name.
5. You Use High Volume, Threats & Ultimatums to Get Your Way: You bear no respect or value for your Partner’s feelings and opinions.
6. You Can’t Resist to Bring Up a Demeaning Conversation: About their body, sexual organs and performance, even when it is irrelevant.
7. You Boast to Your Friends about How You Have Tamed Your Spouse: You further encourage them on how to do the same to their Spouses.
8. You Get Angry When He/She Calls You Out on Being a Terrorist: In turn, you are quick to go to point 1 and start the sequence all over again.
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